Friday, January 27, 2012

Two months

Lucy had her two-month well visit yesterday, although she was actually 2.5 months. I can't remember all of her exact stats, but I do remember the percentages and we have a long, skinny girl on our hands (I'm not gonna lie- I was kind of hoping she would have a bit more chub by now, but maybe she's just not cut out for chub. That'll be a good thing when she's a teenager I guess).

Weight: 25th percentile (10 lbs. 5.5 oz.)
Height: 75th percentile (I think 24.5 inches?)
Head circumference: 1oth percentile (14.5 cm... umm, I don't think this changed from one month... is that bad?)

Here's a little about Lucy at this age:
  • I figured this would be the case, but now that it's confirmed I can say that she HATES shots. I've never seen the poor girl cry so hard... it seemed like a full minute before she could even catch a breath.
  • She loves baths, but the water has to be really warm (like mother like daughter).
  • She gives great BIG smiles when she's happy and we love it!
  • Something that she LOVES and always calms her down if she's upset is "jumping." Basically Ryan will just make her jump up and down on his lap.
  • She hates her car seat and will usually cry more than she sleeps when driving somewhere. The farthest I have gone alone with her is 20 minutes to her doctor's office and let me tell you... that is a long car ride. I'm a little nervous for when we drive from California to SLC shortly (I bet Ryan's parents are even more nervous about that than I am since they're driving us... I apologize in advance).
  • Lucy will usually give us a 4 hour stretch of sleep at the beginning of the night, and then about 2 or 3 hours each time after that. Yesterday the doctor asked if we were getting any sleep at night, and I said "yes! Sometimes she gives us a 4 hour stretch at some point during the night, thank goodness!" and the doctor started laughing and said "well... at least you have a positive attitude about that." Yes, I will take 4 hours compared to the, hmm, 1-1.5 hours we got if we were lucky the first few weeks.
  • We transitioned her from the pack n' play in our room to the crib in her room, but had to bring her back in a few days later because her reflux flared up again and the pack n' play is much easier to have her sleep in at an angle that helps.
  • Finally no more tummy troubles... at ALL! Now we just have to re-introduce food into my diet to see what was bothering her, and maybe she will have grown out of it, if we're lucky!
  • Like I said, the acid reflux flared up again making it really hard for her to eat, sleep and breathe. The doctor had us increase her dosage of zantac, so let's hope it works again (and fast, please!)
  • Her nicknames: Lucy Goose, Lucy Goosie, Lulu, Tighty.
  • LOVES lights and will stare straight at them forever. She especially loves the ceiling fans in all of our rooms and will look up at them while we have her wrapped up and trying to get her to sleep.
  • Speaking of being wrapped up, this girl is a houdini! She can escape the tightest of swaddles. Unfortunately, she can't sleep without her arms being wrapped up because otherwise they don't stay still and she wakes herself up every time. I've even tried leaving just one arm out of the swaddle but that didn't work well at all. So it's one of our sleeping battles right now.
  • She's no longer screams or cries when her diaper has to be changed... so that battle is over. Yay!
  • Her two favorite (judging by smiles and kicks) songs right now are 'wheels on the bus' and 'popcorn popping.'
  • Coos and "talks" like crazy when she's happy. It's super cute! She's starting to get this baby communication thing a little bit. She will make a noise and then I will imitate it, as if responding, and then she smiles really big and gets excited.
  • Loves to be held up on my shoulder and walked around. A better word for "loves" in that sentence would maybe be "demands." Lucy really does not like to be put down right now and will only lay on the floor playing for maybe 5-10 minutes before crying. Let's hope this is just a short phase because it's hard to do much otherwise. I think the reflux has a LOT to do with that since laying down makes it a million times worse. At least my arms are getting a good workout.
  • While she's still a bit fussy quite often, she has had many more calm moments lately and has started to sit quietly on my lap while we eat dinner in the evenings.
Her pediatrician keeps saying how she'll most likely grow out of her reflux and tummy troubles and this and that by 4 months and I have to admit that as much as I love Lucy and am getting used to this parenting thing, 4 months can not come quick enough at this point. We all just need some good sleep and a little less stress. And, while I'm being honest, I know a ton of people who have recently had babies and it's a little difficult to read everyone's updates and blogs about how wonderful their newborns are and how they never cry, they sleep through the night and take good naps, are super happy, perfect little babies that they can take anywhere and do anything with, yadda yadda. I wasn't expecting a perfect child but it's really hard to not compare and wish for something a little easier. Or at least a shower, an extra hour of sleep, and a trip to the grocery store to get something to make for dinner that night. I know it will get better though and seems to with each week. Anyway, I should make a paper chain countdown because it will definitely be worth a party when all these issues are "grown out of." That's all I can think of for now. We really do love our little Lucy so much and she has stolen our hearts so much, even when she is crying in the middle of the night!! Her smiles make it all worth it.

8 comments:

Alisa said...

two months already?! seems impossible!!

Amy said...

Reading your blog made me feel sad! I wish I was right there with you and little Lucy! I have a few words of encouragement...
--My first two babies were not easy in any way! Tyler had reflux, tummy troubles, and never was a good napper (45 minutes was his norm). Susie, who nursed perfectly for a couple months, started screaming when I nursed her at around 3 months. She also never really wanted a bottle either. To top that off, she never wanted to go to sleep at night! She was up with us every night until about 11! Oh, and did I mention that when she'd wake in the middle of the night to feed, she wouldn't go back to sleep for a couple hours? Lucky for me, blogs weren't around for me to make comparisons with the entire world. :)
--All our kids have encountered very difficult stages of life. Easy Baby Amyah is stubborn, screamy, anxious Toddler Amyah! She started out perfect, but got harder and harder... Definitely our hardest toddler.
--Most people display only the most perfect parts of their lives on blogs. You're too honest. :)

I think most mom's are waiting out the hard times. Who doesn't wait and wait for a baby to sleep through the night or settle down on the fussiness? You'll get through it! I love you lots! Can't wait to meet Lucy one day!

Also glad your elimination diet is working. :)

Amy said...

By the way, your pictures of Lucy are adorable! I love them!

Kara and Kevin said...

I hope easier days are just around the corner for you. It is so hard to compare and read other blogs but remember they usually don't put what is hard or stressful. Bennett was a way harder baby for me than Mylee. She was a great sleeper but Bennett has not been and will still wake up at 11 mo. old to come in bed with us around 1 am. I don't know why his eating and sleeping has been so much harder than Mylee. Anyways just know I am thinking of you and praying for you. It's hard when you feel like you can't get showered or make it to the store, or do much of anything. I have had many days like that. I always feel like it takes me a few months after my baby is born before things are normal again with a routine etc. And I look at other moms and they seem back to normal way faster than me. I will be praying for you and little Lucy!! She is super cute!!

Julie said...

Hang in there Britt! I know it's so hard. I wish I could make it easier for you. If it makes you feel any better Caden was NOT a great baby and cried and fussed A LOT. He didn't have any of Lucy's problems, but I feel for you.

Marc, Michelle, Jackson, and Bennett said...

You are doing great Brittney! I know the days are long and hard, but you really are doing great. I don't help much either by talking about Stella, but you know that I had many challenges with Bennett and Jackson. We've talked about this before, but try to know that as awesome as Stella is she has her hard days too. I know I can't complain though, because ours are a lot less often then yours, so I am sorry. I seriously wish I could live next door to you and just knock on your door and visit you all day long. I am glad things are getting better for you and little lulu. You are in my thoughts and prayers all day! Seriously ALL day. I always look at the clock and count ahead to see where you are at. :) Lots of love!

Marc, Michelle, Jackson, and Bennett said...

dear lulu,

You sure are lucky you have a cute head of hair. Mine is all falling out and balding. My mom tries to make it look a little better by keeping headbands in it, but we all know what she is trying to cover up. I am glad your tummy is feeling better! Now let your mom and dad get more sleep, okay? okay.

smiles and coos,
Lala

Betsy said...

Brittney, whoever blog your reading about the perfect baby is probably lying.
It will get better, I promise you. Ella slept horrible when she was a baby. I think she acid reflux but we just didn't know it, my doctor kept saying she would grow out of it. She would sometimes cry for an hour or more at a time for no reason. She was impossible to feed. I had to bounce her just the right way for her to eat her bottle.
She did get better but it did take time. It will get better, just hang in there.